Vince Caponi, CEO of St. Vincent Health in Indianapolis and former trustee of Saint Mary’s College, spoke to Saint Mary’s students in a self-described “true David Letterman fashion” talk called “The Top 10 Rules to Live By.” The College’s “Cross Currents” program sponsored this talk as part of its ongoing Collegiate Speaker Series. Using anecdotal framework from his experiences with his daughters, Caponi addressed students with advice on how to approach the business world after graduation. Introducing his “top 10,” He told students that they should consider three things as they go through college and enter the business world. “In order to be a good student, person, employee, there are three things we all want from our experiences: you want to be in on the things that affect you, you want recognition for a job well done, you want to know what you do makes a difference in people’s lives and have a very clear sight of what role you play,” Caponi said. He followed with his top 10 rules to live by. Caponi said his first two rules, humility and gratitude, were underrated traits of real leaders. Going into the business world, he said, someone would take a chance on you because you have no experience, and it is important to demonstrate your thanks for the opportunities you are given. His third rule was about ethics. “The ethical part is your handshake; it is your honor,” Caponi said. “It’s something only you have and you are the only one who can make that positive of negative.” The fourth rule was to have a sense of humor, which is important because you have to learn to laugh at yourself. Caponi said laughter can help relieve tensions in a lot of difficult situations. Caponi also said that everyone should have a “can-do, positive attitude.” He told students to remain positive, especially when first entering the career world. “There are people that walk around with a cloud over their heads, but that will get you nowhere,” Caponi said. “When you apply for jobs, there are going to be a lot of people who are going to tell you that you can’t do it, but you have to remember that you are a gift from God and that you have a unique talent.” Sixth on Caponi’s list was to love where you are. He said that if one does not receive their ideal position in the company, take advantage of the opportunity because situations tend to work out in the end. As a seventh rule, Caponi said he would advise everyone to try and learn something new everyday. Learning new things, especially details about people, can break down the walls that divide us and allow us to start building relationships. His advice was to learn from outlets that you don’t necessarily agree with. The eighth rule was to communicate often and clearly. Caponi stressed the importance of communication, both verbal and physical communication. “In terms of jobs, communication is very important,” Caponi said. “It’s really important that you do it clearly, understandably and often.” The ninth rule to live by, according to Caponi, was to remember that there are two sides to every story. Keeping this in mind, Caponi said, do not rush to judgment and give people the benefit of the doubt. He also said that it is important to explore, probe and to find out the truth in these situations. Caponi’s culminated his top 10 list with a rule that he said was probably the most important of the 10 — volunteer. He said location isn’t an excuse, because there is always an opportunity to spend time giving of yourself to others. “My advice to you is do what you do, and love what it is that you do,” Caponi said.
Mrs. Mary Louise (Gierada) Christiani, age 82, of Florence, Indiana, entered this life on January 21, 1938 in Detroit, Michigan. She was the loving daughter of the late Walter Peter and Eleanor Mary (Redman) Gierada. She was raised in Allen Park, Michigan and was a 1956 graduate of Allen Park High School. Mary attended Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan. Mary was an accountant for several years in Tampa, Florida. She was a member of the Most Sorrowful Mother of God Catholic Church in Vevay, Indiana. Mary was a wonderful homemaker and raised her five children. She was a member of the Red Hat Society and Posey Tappers Homemakers. She was also a 4-H leader and held various offices. Mary enjoyed crocheting, playing cards and reading books. Mary passed away at 11:04 p.m., Monday, March 16, 2020, at the King’s Daughters’ Hospital in Madison, Indiana.Mary will be missed by her loving husband, Anthony B. “Tony” Christiani of Florence, IN; her children, Phillip Christiani and his wife, Tara of Tampa, FL, Felicia Lynam and her husband, David of Vevay, IN, Jennifer Dadabbo and her husband, Dominic of Waxhaw, NC, David Christiani and his wife, Pamela of Golf Port, MS and Matthew Christiani and his wife, Wendy of Cedar, MI; his grandchildren, Nick Christiani, Jason Humbert, Stephanie Patten, Kevin Christiani, Tim Christiani, Lindsay Duncan and Craig Dadabbo and her great-grandchildren, Davin, Brody, Jordyn, Harper, Madison, Elizabeth and Margot.She was preceded in death by her parents, Walter Peter and Eleanor Mary (Redman) Gierada and her sister, Anna “Nancy” Felegy.Private family visitation only will be held on Friday, March 20, 2020, from 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m., at the Haskell & Morrison Funeral Home 208 Ferry Street Vevay, Indiana 47043.Private family prayer service only will be conducted Friday, March 20, 2020, at 1:00 p.m., by Father Christopher Craig at the Haskell & Morrison Funeral Home.Private family interment only will be held on Monday, March 23, 2020 at 1:00 p.m. in the Ottawa Park Cemetery, Clarkston, Michigan.A public memorial mass will be held at a later date at the Most Sorrowful Mother of God Catholic Church in Vevay, Indiana.Due to the current situation of COVID-19, we will be following the directives from Governor Holcomb and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention concerning large events and mass gatherings. The family deeply appreciates the support and love shown from friends, but the health and well being of everyone in our community is of our top priority.Memorial contributions may be made to the Most Sorrowful Mother of God Catholic Church. Cards are available at the funeral home or online at www.haskellandmorrison.com